Struggles with boundary discovery
How some people struggle to calibrate depth, intensity, and charge in real time with other people.
😫 What is the struggle?
I want to shed light on something that people with high psychological capacity often struggle with:
💌 Sharing the right things with the right people at the right time
Or, put another way: Assess intensity relative to readiness.
These people want to approach others in a considerate, respectful and supportive manner, but know they might run the risk of either
🐘 Overstepping (exploring and sharing too much) or
🐁 Understepping (exploring and sharing too little)
They know they need to:
- Assess if people are ready for 🌶️ medium, 🌶️🌶️ spicy or 🌶️🌶️🌶️ extra hot
- Let people connect with the emotional charge of a topic, without having to fully engage with it, and
- Understand where people stop saying yes
...but are not quite sure how to go about it.
