Struggles with boundary discovery

Boundary discovery should enable us to discover and retain a live understanding of three dimensions of boundaries.

💡 Informational boundary

1. How much complexity, abstraction, or novelty can be held?
2. Where does curiosity turn into overload?

💗 Emotional boundary

1. How much emotional charge can be present without flooding or shutdown?
2. Where does resonance turn into self-protection?

🤗 Engagement boundary

1. How much participation is wanted right now?
2. Feeling something ≠ wanting to explore it.

Having proper access to this data helps understand when:

1. overstepping and understepping happens
2. people are interested but not that interested
3. people silently withdraw instead of explicitly saying no