Struggles with attraction

Very few people spend time mentally ahead of the curb, like we do. It's like their event horizon is much shorter than ours, focused on this weeks task or the upcoming vacation.

And even if the are inclined expand their field of vision, they usually have not thought as long and hard about our the problem domain as we have.

As a result, they struggle to keep up with our thoughts, simply because they don't understand how we got there in the first place.

They are not as intimately and intuitively familiar with the emotional driving force as we are.