Struggles with boundary discovery
How some people struggle to calibrate depth, intensity, and charge in real time with other people.
🫥 What is missing?
People don’t opt out because they don’t care.
They opt out because their system can’t digest the dose.
However, succeeding with relational dosing is not just a "soft skill."
It requires a:
📠Negotiation protocol for the nervous-system
Without it, people run the risk of serving up too large a dose too early, or too little too late.
This is especially true of people who are high a doser themselves, meaning that they have unusually high capacities of:
- inner bandwidth
- pattern recognition
- emotional openness, and
- associative thinking
