Why people struggle

🪫 Overload: There's just simply too much on my plate right now

⏳ Timing: It's not the right time for me and my dreams just yet

😰 Overwhelm: I find the prospect of gaining clarity and charting out a life course a bit overwhelming

🤔 Dwelling: I'm waiting for an ephiphany, or for the dissonance within me to resolve itself

👍 Consent seeker: I feel like I need the express permission or consent of others to go after my best life

👧 Good girl/boy: I was taught to believe that I was most useful if I was serving or not bothering the people around me

💪 Overly self-reliant: I was taught to belive that I can and should be able to solve anyting myself

📖 No emotional education: I did not have any constructive emotional role models growing up

🫵 Taught to supress needs: I was punished for showing feelings or promoted for being self-reliant

🤬 Emotionally reactive: I struggle to know what I'm feeling unless I have had an emotional outburst

💙 Performance-based definition of worth: I tie my feelings of safety, self worth and self love to how well I am able to serve others

🤲 Lack of support: I have no one who is actively expecting and following up on me living my best life

🧰 No methodology: I wouldn't know where or how to start

Why people struggle️